Is Chemestry Enough Daddy? Part 1

NO! a big fat NO! You cannot build a forever relationship on chemistry!
Yes, I am shouting, and I am shouting because I want to drill it in our heads that when we were children doing basic science, we were taught that living things were either animal or plant. Our science teachers were not wrong. Later on when some of us started to understand the backward, uneducated preachers in our churches, most of whom did not even complete high school, and on top of that refused to read anything other than the Bible, or material related to the Bible, or some other near-Bible material that told them everything they already believed. They started telling us that we were NOT animals, that the science books were wrong, and we believed them. Some of us still believe them to this very day.
We all, every one of us has all the instincts of the dog, the cat, the monkey and the rabbits in the fields around us, including the same chemistry that causes the male dog to leap over the highest fence when it smells the chemical emitted by the female dog two fences down the dirt track, to tell all male dogs in the area that this black and white baby is in heat. It is amazing how some of those male dogs can leap high walls that have broken glass bottles cemented in on top of them, and can pop thick chains to get to the bitch down the alley.
 Humans have chemistry too, this is why men get paid on Friday afternoon, and by Saturday morning a woman is in Cindy store spending off all his money. It is chemistry, but it cannot hold a relationship together for an entire lifetime. Humans need more than chemistry to keep us in relationships. Chemistry  is exactly what brings on the sweet feeling. I always ignore what the preachers say and tell seeking-mate-age people to make sure they feel some lust. A little lust is necessary; do not let the church people fool you, they live in an unrealistic bubble. You need an erection. If you cannot get an erecting when the girl who wants to be your girlfriend touches you, and you still go ahead and marry her because the church people are expecting you to, harassing your young soul asking you when they going get to eat cake; tell them if they are hungry for cake they can go buy a ready mixed in Value Mart and make one. They are pushing you to marry although you know that you feel nothing rising down there when she holds your hands, but after all, she is a good Christian so you cannot break her heart. If you go ahead and marry her you are as crazy as a drunken baboon. A little lust is essential, do not let them put no foolishness in your head. Think for your own self. But you cannot build a relationship on that alone. You need common sense too. Common sense is what makes a relationship work, because you can have all the chemistry in the world and you do not have common sense, you will find yourself with the right chemistry but a whole lot of confusion inside your home, and it won't be long before one of you begin to feel some chemistry for somebody else.