It's funny how much worry is associated with this no-longer-so-private act. Women, particularly, worry that they may very well get totally and completely undressed before a man who has been hinting, and then indicating, and promising her a good time, only to disappoint her in twenty seconds. If it's the first time she has attempted such a thing because of her conservative upbringing, she has all right to wonder if this is what this thing is all about. There is a woman, I am certain, somewhere, who is spending an entire pregnancy bloated and angry at the man who did this to her. She cannot sit properly, she waddles when she walks, her clothes do not fit, her belly itches, and to sit on any toilet anywhere is a stress, because there had better be something to hold on to while getting up and sitting down. She is angry throughout her pregnancy because this pregnancy took less than a blinking minute to happen, and now she has to carry this child for nine long months, then raise him until he is at least eighteen years old. So many women these days have decided to go on a sex strike; a complete lock down. They are simply not interested in doing it.
Much of it is not so much a problem with the sex, because most women seem to want more than just bed time. Their problem is with the men who want to do it to them, and the more intelligent these women are, the more they seem disinterested in doing it. They want more than an erect penis; they want a man with a functioning brain, because these days women are rather conscious of genetics and do not want a son fathered by a man who can ram but cannot think; this is because they can always abandon the man but they cannot abandon a dead-brain son who inherited his father's genes.
So sex for women these days is a calculated act, and for some, the sums are just not coming together, hence sex toys proliferate, because, if for no other reason, they cannot impregnate a woman, and brain thrust is not a concern.
Of course there are always exceptions. There are women who would do it with anything on two legs, but I am increasingly stunned at the number of women I meet on a daily basis who say they have simply stopped doing it.
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